Originally, I only. Wanted to lose 5kg! In 2008 I was about 94-95kg, I started in here in late Oct or early Nov, not sure, 2010 at 91.5kg. I would have been happy with 5kg, but not only did I want to notice the difference, I wanted others to as well! Once I lost the 5kg, which was difficult, but I still hoped that the tablets alone would do it for me, it wasn't enough for me to see much and certainly nobody else did. So I went for another 5! I'm an even numbers freak so by then I thought 80kg was a good spot, and it was about then they Belle made me feel guilty enough (due to her walking every single day, in pain) to get off my fat arse and start walking! I started walking for 15 minutes every couple of days, when I could fit it in, it's only in the last few months, since I've recovered from knee surgery, that I've becomes a little obsessed with exercise. I'm happy now if I lose 1kg a month, I see that as an achievement, you'll find your achievement point too, at the moment it's 1kg a week, but as you get closer to your first goal, it will change.
Good luck with it all, I really am glad you are popping in here more often, it really does help, especially in the weeks that don't go so well.
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Thanks everyone!! I'm just wondering what you all do when you run out of acaislim and still have colon cleanse tabs left? I ordered the large package of 4 bottles of acai slim and 4 bottles of colon cleanse and I take 4 a/s and 2 c/c a day so have a tonne of colon cleanse left. Do you think colon cleanse will be effective on its own if I don't order more acaislim yet? It seems a shame not to order the large package as you get so much free colon cleanse and free shipping, but if I need to take acai slim every day what will I do with all the extra colon cleanse tabs!?
Thanks guys. I just started Day 1 of Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred workout DVD (the first workout DVD I've ever owned! woohoo) .. it was an absolute killer! Can't wait to see my fitness and strength improve over the next month:)
Thanks guys. I just started Day 1 of Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred workout DVD (the first workout DVD I've ever owned! woohoo) .. it was an absolute killer! Can't wait to see my fitness and strength improve over the next month:)
Hey everyone! Had a great week this week - lost 2.2kg!! Hope you are all doing great too! I have a big weekend planned with friends' birthdays and whatnot so am expecting a not-so-excellent weight loss result next week but I will try to minimise the damage (gotta have fun sometimes, hey!).
WOW! awesome loss this week, well done! Yes, you do have to juggle special occasions or treats, it just takes some adjustment on what you eat for the rest of the week. Enjoy.
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wow newme! i am so proud of you and envy you a little well in a good way - that is i hope i can have big losses like yours great great job! and yes, we need a little break sometimes the pills need a breaking from their work too...lol
Thanks everyone! Badmintonplayer - don't envy me! I get big losses sometimes because I have soooo much to lose! I'd take weighing less and losing weight slower any day! Lol I had a huge weekend - lots of partying, drinking and hangover eating :( Not feeling too hopeful for this week's weigh-in but I will do what I can to minimise the damage. I'd be happy to lose nothing this week along as I don't gain anything! Ahh well, live and learn hey! Wishing you all the best of luck this week xx
Hey everyone! Had a great week this week - lost 2.2kg!! Hope you are all doing great too! I have a big weekend planned with friends' birthdays and whatnot so am expecting a not-so-excellent weight loss result next week but I will try to minimise the damage (gotta have fun sometimes, hey!).
Thanks everyone! Badmintonplayer - don't envy me! I get big losses sometimes because I have soooo much to lose! I'd take weighing less and losing weight slower any day! Lol I had a huge weekend - lots of partying, drinking and hangover eating :( Not feeling too hopeful for this week's weigh-in but I will do what I can to minimise the damage. I'd be happy to lose nothing this week along as I don't gain anything! Ahh well, live and learn hey! Wishing you all the best of luck this week xx
Hahah! I know what you mean. Don't worry...I'm sure you'll be just fine.
Hey guys.. I need some advice I totally let myself down this week, it was like the moment I went out to dinner on Thursday night was the moment I flipped the switch off. I drank and ate a heap on Thursday and Friday night, and then ate the most unhealthy hangover food on Saturday convincing myself I could classify it as a calorie spiking day (I knew I was BS'ing myself!). Then for the rest of the week it was like I had forgotten everything I had committed! I ate loads of carbs and sugar and oily foods, didn't take my AS and CC, didn't drink much water, and didn't exercise one bit. My new scales have also been messing up (recording different weights every time I step on the scale - within a minute of doing it) which pissed me off and made me feel like I couldn't see any progress (so stupid I know as the change I should care about is the change in my body, not on a broken scale!) *Sigh* I'm getting back on track right now.. have taken my AS and CC and am drinking a bucketload of water with fresh lemon juice in the hopes of flushing myself out. I'm embarrassed to say I weigh 116.2kg today which is a 3.4kg gain from last week. Who gains 3.4kg in a week!?!?! I would like to blame it on my dodgy scales but I know I have definitely gained weight regardless of whether that number is correct or not. I weighed myself after eating a lot this morning so hopefully part of that will disappear with a bowel movement but still! I think my problem is that I have an extreme personality when it comes to health. When I'm good I'm really good and really focused and really strict (hence the 4kg, 2.2kg, 2kg losses in a week) and then when I'm not focused I'm TERRIBLE! Hence why I've GAINED weight 3 weeks out of 10 so far. And when I gain, I gain BIG! I'm so embarressed to admit this to you all but I think I need to - obviously I got this big for a reason so I don't want to pretend I'm a weight loss pro and that it's easy for me. It's really hard. Do you have any tips that have helped you stay on track? Routines/motivation/vision boards/mantra's/websites/books/anything else?? I think I need to keep surrounding myself with more and more health and fitness things to keep me focused, interested and therefore on track. I get really into things initially (muay thai training in Thailand, going to the gym, 4 Hour Work Week, Couch to 5km, 30 Day Shred, Lemon Detox Diet and various other cleansing/detox products, MyFitnessPal, calorie counting) but I never stick to it over the longterm. I perform so well when I am on a program and then when I have no rules and directions and get out of a very structured routine, I fail miserably. I know you probably won't have the magical answer I'm looking for (and I'm sure there isn't one) but am just hoping you have some advice/past experiences you've been through and what helped you improve your health habits. Honestly, even just admitting all this stuff is making me feel lighter already
Thanks for being so honest newme...I know it's hard but good on you for that. I am finding it very hard at the moment to lose weight and my scales are up and down but I think for me it's because of all the pain killers I have to take for my dodgy shoulder. I think the reason you put on 3.4kg in a week is because you got a bit carried away with your eating and drinking that's all. You are probably one of those people that finds it really hard to lose weight but really really easy to put it on.
I have found that changing my lifestyle (not dieting) has worked for me. I walk every day and I've also started using my daughters exercise bike at night time. I think you have to find an exercise that you like and then you will be fine. B4 I started this I used to eat jam and cream doughnuts and I haven't eaten one since...I just don't feel the need to eat that sort of thing anymore. I also used to eat a whole packet of tim tams and wouldn't dream of doing that now. I do still over eat but I will hop on the exercise bike or just say that can be a cheat day and I'll be good for the rest of the week.
I guess you just have to except that you over did it this week and start all over again. I just tell myself I don't want to get as fat as I once was and I am happy living a healthy lifestyle as well.
Hope that helps a little bit.
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Ok, first thing is DON'T PANIC! lol
It's great that you can be honest with yourself, but it's even better that you can tell us, that's the answer your looking for, that you have non-judgmental and sympathetic help with us.
If you have time, read from the start of my thread, you'll find that I struggled for months most weeks, I gained more weeks than losing, it took me months to jumble all suggestions that I was told or had learnt over a lifetime of "dieting" to come up with a tailor made "life change" that fitted with my lifestyle, the one thing I didn't want to change as I'm happy where I am in life and so didn't want to go back to starving myself eating raw broccoli and cauliflower!
Keep being honest with yourself, maybe just start writing down whatever goes in your mouth for a few days, you might be surprised. Find out what works for you, juggle your foods, count calories, eat more protein less carbs, just keep trying to find the right way for your body to get healthy then it becomes easy after a while, you don't need to think about it.
And like Belle said, you need to get it solidly in your head, that you are doing this for life, a diet has a start and an end, a lifestyle change keeps you where you need to be, for life.
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I already feel a lot better today after taking my AS and CC and drinking lots of water. I really need to find MY healthy balance and I think it's going to take a lot of time and work to find it. I've been overweight my whole life so nothing I've done in the past has really worked for me to keep me at a healthy weight longterm. There have been a few times when I went on crazy weightloss missions for a few months, lost a lot of weight, felt comfortable with my life and then it all came back on. Which means I really need to get to know my body and my mind to find out what I need to do daily to be healthy. I know 100% I am on this mission and there is no turning back - it just sucks when you have a week where you really let yourself down and undo a lot of progress you made.
I'll tell you what though - for the first time I think forum has REALLY helped me - beyond anything else I could do for myself. Admitting to other people that I ate myself silly this week and gained a lot of weight despite my deepest desires to be healthy and slim is something I NEVER do. Considering the huge percentage of people in the world that are overweight and obese - that's a hell of a lot of people not admitting that they're doing something wrong! I feel some serious relief right now.
Dinkidi - I will definitely read your thread. I find the fact you gained weight more weeks than you lost is really interesting and very inspiring. I say this to myself all the time - "I don't need to be perfect, I just need to be healthy". Ideally I want to eat more balanced, filling meals (I tend to make myself eat very small amounts when I am trying to lose weight) and exercise more. It's funny because I imagine what my habits will be like once I've lost the weight and I imagine myself eating lots of good, fresh food and enjoying an active lifestyle. Ironically, in an attempt to get to that lifestyle I am starving myself one day, overeating the next day, and having a very inactive lifestyle. I really need to start creating my ideal lifestyle now. I'm going to focus on that this week. I need to focus less on the numbers on the scale and more on doing what I know is good for my body (and of course refer to the scales to make sure it is working!).
Thanks ladies, I really appreciate your support and advice. I WILL get there - it's going to be a long and interesting journey I hope you both are doing well at the moment - you should both know that you have achieved things so many people dream of. The amount of weight you have lost is amazing and the fact that you are so dedicated to helping the rest of us in the forums is even more amazing.
You'll do fine, just be true to yourself, believe you can do it and keep that goal in your mind. Don't get too upset about the difficult weeks, just kick yourself up the bum and get back on track. It's not a quick fix, the things you learn about your body now will become second nature and you will be a fit, happy and healthy person for life when you reach your goal.
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hi newme i know you'll do good this week a little fall wouldn't hurt, instead it will make you stronger you have lost a lot so just keep on going you are one of my inspirations here so stand up and get back on track ;)
Newme put on 3.4 kg in a week that's not just a small setback badminton player she needs help to get back on track. So if you have any words of advice thatd be good.
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Good news - 1.4kg has dropped off since yesterday (must of been a stomach full of food and water retention) so that means I gained about 2kg, not 3.4kg (still terrible but at least a bit better!). I must say, my new scales are terrible and give different readings all the time but I'll do my best with them.
My goals for this week is to get back into exercising and listen to my body about its' hunger levels. I need to find a good balance because when I am dieting I don't eat enough food and when I'm not dieting I eat way too much food.
@Badmintonplayer - thanks for your kind words. I really appreciate it
@Belle - Yes it's not a small setback but it has demonstrated to me how dangerous it is for me to not pay attention to my health. The fact that I could put that much weight on in a week shows to me how important it is to change my life. I'm on a long road to finding a routine and lifestyle that works for me. Really appreciate all your advice and support
I think you really need to pick a weigh in day new me. I know how tempting it is to get on the scales everyday but your weight can fluctuate a lot from day to day. So my suggestion to you is to choose a day that would suit you and weigh yourself that day (in the morning) and then come on here and tell us.
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I agree Belle, you can't get an accurate reading unless you weigh in at the same time on the same day. My weight can vary up to 1.5kg day to day ( as I proved when I had scale OCD!)
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Yes Belle I will. I normally do come in and report a weekly weigh-in amount. Have just been more active on here the last couple of days due to my stuffing up last week. I think I will do official weigh-ins on Friday mornings from now on.
A little scale OCD side note - the scales read 113.4kg today! So from gaining 3.4kg on my lowest weight I'm now only 600 grams away from being back at my lowest weight of 112.8kg
Ok thanks so much for your support guys, I'll come back in on Friday for my Week 11 weigh-in
It will be interesting to see what you are on your official weigh in day, I'll bet you'll be back to last weeks weight or less with the determination you have now!
Go get 'em! You can do it!
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That was some week, back there. dinkidi and Belle are right. There should be some changes that suits you best...that way, you can stick to it for as long as you need. I can see now that you have done so much better after that gain and only 600gms away from making it back. There's no doubt in my mind that you'll get right back on track by the end of this week. I agree with you...the forum helps a lot in situations like this...opening up like that is a load off. We appreciate your honesty and let that be a lesson to us all.
I get you. I appreciate that you're so honest, newme. It's actually good that we share our ups and downs because that's how we learn from each other. Move right along and you'll do just fine. You already are doing a lot better as I can see.
Hey everyone, so I lost all the weight I gained last week plus an extra 500grams (thankgod!). Thanks for all your support!! Have a great weekend! I have another weekend of birthday parties but this time I will get back on track on Monday unlike last time! Lol never going through that again!